It kinda bothers me how they keep up that "goddess" thing. I know, she's supposed to be submissive, which is already sad in itself, as it more than anything seems to be a trauma-induced coping mechanism that gets reinforced through regular abuse, but it's particular about the implications of the word. It's already questionable if this kind of submission makes for a healthy relationship, but whenever she says it, Ashley is demeaning herself. It doesn't come about as loving, but rather as "I'm so insignificant in comparison", which was the exact thing Julia wanted to put a stop to. She even pointed it out right here that when this idea is reinforced in Ashley's mind she's just going along with everything. No matter how self-destructive the implications are, she's seeing herself as the lesser worshipper who has no point in disagreeing with what the goddess says. It's clearly not a "heat of the moment" thing, as she's again and again falling into this line whenever she's pressured into sex. While Julia proclaims to want to treat her as someone important, she allows that Ashley becomes someone who worships her. Yet aside from it being quite the hackneyed thing to say, a worshipper is someone who thinks little of oneself in comparison. It doesn't quite fit a relationship where the big one loves the smaller equally and wants them to know it.
Now Julia should ask herself, if Ashley becomes this self-demeaning, then wouldn't she also see everyone else as better than herself? Would she be willing to worship whoever else is in power over her if her self-confidence is so little that she can only see herself as an insignificant being with no relevance to make demands of her own? Julia's actions and intentions clash quite severely on this matter. On one side she says she would die for Ashley, which basically means she's implying that she thinks Ashley matters more than herself. On the other, she still falls into the owner, but worse, in the "you don't matter in bed" thinking, by simply forcing things on her she clearly said no to and then overpowers those by imposing the "I'm your goddess" idea. Yet exactly those moments are the most problematic. In those, Ashley loses all agenda to be her own person. Yet if she isn't her own person, she's just a slave who would crouch down for everyone. It feels like those moments drive her in this direction, as well with reinforcing that the system of the registration makes her an owned slave. With a little bit of critical thinking Julia should become aware that she makes Ashley think of herself as lesser than any futa, which given all that came from Julia is something she clearly doesn't want to imply. Seems like a fault how their dirty talk becomes the norm of their interaction.

It feels like a contradiction how she wants her to be submissive and think highly of herself. Though that probably doesn't even have to be. Theoretically, it should be possible to make the calls while still reinforcing that Ashley's opinion matters.

Maybe for once, Julia should make it a point to call Ashley a goddess. Say positive things instead of pushing her down. It's kinda the question if she truly wants Ashley as someone thinking of themselves as having any value in this relationship.