Reviewer: DARK WRITTER Signed [Report This]
Date: November 30 2015 1:37 PM Title: Hot Feet

Just keep me in mind should you ever need to vent.  On the funny side, I myslef would love to find a woman who thinks of me as an "it".  He He He He He

 

Till next time!

Reviewer: DARK WRITTER Signed [Report This]
Date: November 30 2015 1:07 PM Title: Hot Feet

Whoa Kiddo!  Please allow me to play the part of the creepy internet guy for a bit.  Hearing, or more appropriately reading that only two people care about you is selling yourself short erroneously.

 

First, I'm not sure how young you are to have not been intimate with anyone yet; but take my advice and DO NOT RUSH IT!!!  I have plenty of divorced friends who rushed it and wound up with either a baby, a disease or both.  Eventually down the line they separate.  They always do.

 

So do not be in a rush to make a mistake you'll spend the rest of your life regretting and REALLY loose out on the great times that lay ahead of you.

 

Second, don't kid yourself that only two people care about you.  Even if you only know two people in all the world, there are more out there that simply haven't had the chance to tell you how they feel.

 

I read part of a book by Richard Bach { famous for Jonathan Livingston Seagull } called "The Bridge Across Forever".  In one chapter he is imagining a discussion between him and his mentor, and his mentor asks "What would the perfect woman of your dreams be doing right now?" {paraphrased} and his response was "She would not be here doing this."  Think about that!

 

If you are looking for, let's say a controlling, domineering woman do you think you'll find her at a group discussion for oppressed people or more likely at a power luncheon for top female executives?  Believe it or not, you'll more than likely find her at the group discussion for oppressed people.  It's part of a psychological balance most of us try to achieve.

 

Another example, if you're outdoor and athletic and seek a partner who is a bookworm, go to the library or book store.  You won't find her on the track field doing sprints.

 

You have talent as a writer; and live's experiences will only make you better.  live not just for the moment; but for the future.  Never dwell upon the past unless it brings a smile.

 

I'm not a wise person.  I can not say turn left or right and everything will be fine.  I can tell you that ONLY YOU, and no one else decides the life you shall live.  If you truly seek a guiding hand to control you and tell you what a good little girl you are (as I do, only pet, not girl. he he he) then look for her doing the types of activities you wish her to do.  

 

 

She's out there waiting for you kiddo.  

Author's Response:

 . . . Holy shit.

I'm in my early twenties, by the by. I've been living alone since my family disowned me when I was 17 (they all told me to my face that I was an abomination that should go kill itself- yes, they started referring to me as an  "it"), so excuse me for not being exactly peppy.

Oh, I wouldn't rush into something. Still, though, to have never even been on a date (not for lack of trying) is kinda pathetic. 

Let's see, there's my IRL friend who talked me out of suicide once, there's Choreo- there's the people who I know give a shit. I might as well not have a family anymore. Then there's my neighbors and coworkers, none of whom have even asked for my name. My landlord knows it, but I've only ever talked to him about rent and fixing the issues with this place. Then there's everyone on this site, who I know next to nothing about. That sums everyone up.

Thanks for the dating advice, though! I'll take that to heart. Maybe now I might find a girl willing to put up with me XD

But really, thank you. When it seems that everything is out to get you, it's moments like this that make everything a little better.